Thursday, September 22, 2011

Getting Started

Disclaimers: Not an expert on Dating. Motherhood maybe more so with that though my kids could disagree. As to cats not an expert at all but they seem to come with middle age and divorce the way in laws come with marriage. You either embrace them, live with them, appease them, or wind up miserable. I choose my battles carefully.

From the start my dating post divorced has been a few odd moments of some forced sets up,( well intended but awkward, those who love you believe you got start somewhere well anywhere and some of the walking wounded are shuffled before you. Really any man married three times out looking for wife number 4 when you are barely divorced is scary as hell. Just saying. My first experience post divorce)

Not that I did better for myself with the dating game. I chose Plenty of Fish and OkCupid for purely economic reasons. They are free online dating sites and got say sometimes you get what you pay for. I sure did at least so far. Got stories to tell.